Room to Breathe
November 2, 2008
by Susan Lucas
Lately as a mom, I have been faced with some interesting challenges. One involves the presidential race. With an election coming up, my son, Rett, is eligible to vote. He’s excited about it and I am thrilled that he cares about the election. I am not so enthusiastic about his choice of a presidential candidate. However, I know that the choice is his.
So, what do I do? I know that I can’t berate his candidate or even send him unflattering e-mails concerning his decision. I can however make sure that my son has enough credible information to make a choice based on his convictions. I don’t want him to be swayed by me, his girlfriend or the charismatic appeal of a candidate. As a parent, I think sometimes we walk a fine line. We have to let our children mature but also allow them to make some decisions that can make us cringe. We have to know how to give advice without giving orders or turning our kids completely off.
So, I am trying to be quiet. I am making sure that he is informed by giving him access to material about each candidate’s voting records. I am praying for the outcome of this election and I am giving Rett room to breathe.
This is a great article. True Wisdom!!!!
Thank you!!!